Navigating positive and negative emotional feelings as working mothers: A qualitative study
Abstract
Purpose: This study explores the complex emotional experiences of working mothers as they strive to balance their professional and family commitments. It aims to deeply understand both the positive and negative emotional experiences that characterize the life of a working mother.
Method: Utilizing a qualitative approach, this research conducted semi-structured interviews with six working mothers. This method was chosen to capture a comprehensive range of emotional experiences stemming from their dual roles.
Result: Findings from the interviews revealed three main themes: (1) identity and role as a working mother, namely the mother's perception and integration of professional and parental roles; (2) their emotional feelings as working mothers, findings detailing the spectrum of emotions they encountered; and (3) strategies for balancing emotional states, exploring methods used to manage and reduce emotional fluctuations and maintain balance.
Conclusion: The findings underscore the necessity for enhanced support systems that can better assist working mothers in managing the multifaceted challenges of their dual roles. In the absence of adequate support, these challenges can lead to significant stress and a reduction in overall life satisfaction
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